
Hey, we still haven't been able to find a secure way to poll everyone yet. I've really been wanting to ask (in the negative, to be more inclusive) what proportion of Hexbear is queer. This isn't going to be super scientific or anything as a result, but just a quick guess. ... read full post

It's for a local LGBTQ nonprofit. Honestly I poured my soul into this application, was honest in ways i never have been, and now that it's done the only thing I feel is dread. I took a big step and let myself feel hope, but I know with near certainty given the past 293+ job applications that have ended in failure, i can't help but feel that this go the same way. i don't know how that will feel—worse, maybe, since i exposed the barest hint of what I want to be and will inevitably be punished for it. i'm so tired of this. ... read full post
I finished this book a while ago and it really blew my mind. I'm a trans woman and it completely changed my understanding of my own gender and my understanding of gender as a concept. It's given my a new understanding of the ways I may have been perpetuating harm and ways to change for the better. It was just a life changing read for myself and my cis wife as well. ... read full post


Hoping to hear everyone’s week went well this past week. Go out there and have a great week this week everyone! 

:::spoiler This pic goes so hard, it's hard to believe this is the source (CW: transphobia) ... read full post
On one hand, I have people, both misunderstood cis and binary trans people, who ask me "Why can't you just be a cis man?". On the other hand, I have people, both misunderstood cis and binary trans people, who ask me "Why can't you just be a trans woman?". ... read full post
I got pretty emotional over this video. Part of it is a conversation between current day Abigail and her old self when she was still living life as a man, and it resonated with me on a pretty intimate level. As someone who is still pretty early on in her journey, it was really touching to see how far Abigail has come, and how she refutes the internalized transphobia and the doubts she had that were holding her back from transitioning as a dialog with her old self. ... read full post

i don't have the first idea of how to talk about this movie. you need to see it, especially if you're trans. even more if you're transfem, and most of all if you're transfem or questioning but haven't come out or started transition yet. i cannot recommend it enough, it's in theaters now and you should see it there if at all possible. this is going to be kind of a mess because this movie made me feel so many emotions i have no idea how to properly express, but i'll do my best ... read full post

I can't really find a consistent, comprehensive answer online and I don't really feel comfortable asking my friends who are
Hope it was a great week everyone. Hopefully this one is even better. 







The stretch goal is filming my death when it explodes going 10 mph
Thank you for your time, and good night.


(I collectivized this image btw)
Me:

Another week, another thread. Go out there and have a good one everyone! 