Remember to respond even if you are cisgender, queer, or otherwise. Everyone should try to respond, if you feel comfortable!

what is this honeypot

Hexbear has more lgbt people than the liberal lgbt instances and it's not even trying.

The one neat trick: Visible pronouns that aren't buried in a performative section of the profile page where people can ignore that they exist.

imagine being on Hexbear for any length of time and still being cisgender

hello cisgenders

big showing from the five cishet guys on here

it feels wrong frowning at something that brings so much joy and is the morally correct thing to be

but everyone's a little gay innit

YOU POOR, CISHET FOOLS - YOU'RE ALL GETTING ONE-MONTH BANS NOW

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For all practical purposes? Yes. I'm a cisgender man who is in a relationship with the mother of my children and I want to keep it that way.

If I for some hypothetical reason were to find a new partner I feel like I could be with any gender, they're all hot in each their own way so I guess I'm bisexual at heart although I feel like applying that label to myself is done form of stolen valor.

As for gender I feel fine about presenting as a guy although it could be fun experimenting from time to time.

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::: spoiler spoiler i tried to be cishet though. good lord, did i try to make that work :::

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I mean, it's in the name.

::: spoiler spoiler I am afab and present as cis and het. I was in love with a girl in high school but haven’t really been attracted to another woman since though I’ve had like romantic-adjacent feelings. I think I might be somewhere in the nb space but I don’t have dysphoria or anything I just don’t particularly feel engaged with the idea of femininity or gender at all :::

I've said it before, I'm bi and very much not attached to my manhood. But for any poll's sake, it's not fitting to ignore that I live in and experience the world as a cishet.

:dean-neutral: ::: spoiler oh I should spoiler this realistically I might not be cis, given the amount of time I spend in the trans mega. Maybe next poll I'll upgrade myself again. :::

::: spoiler spoiler just the cissiest little cissy hetting all over the place :::

::: spoiler spoiler In a very long term cishet relationship (probably longer than many hexbears have been alive), so I don't really consider myself , but that would likely change if my relationship status did. Note: this is just something I apply to myself, not others, so I still think you're valid in your identity if this same thing applies to you but you think differently. :::

::: spoiler spoiler some days I'm like "am I really queer though??" and then I remember I got a gender affirming surgery :::

I'm a cisgender bisexual which barely feels like it counts lmao

tfw cishets smh

::: spoiler spoiler i am bi and cisgender but to the extent that i am apathetic about my gender and wouldn't mind experimenting with presentation :::

Edit: definitely misread the instructions.

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::: spoiler spoiler although my account isn't on the hexbear instance. :::

what is that flag what is that flag who made that flag tell me now

and yeah im trans as fuck im gay as fuck its the best why should i frown

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::: spoiler spoiler After going to art high school, its so weird seing so many cishets. Like, are normal people seriously disgusted if i say im not cis or het?? Whats their problem??? :

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And I kinda don't get 'gender' as to how I'm supposed to interpret how I feel occupying one but I was amab and it's fine I guess. It hasn't really been an issue aside from being called gay in jr high kinda stuff.

::: spoiler spoiler I don't question my gender...but Chris Evans does sometimes make me question my sexuality. Only one who ever has. :::

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I'm a nonbinary funky gender who mostly presents masculine but I also have flannel lesbian vibes. I'm just a weird little squirt.

::: spoiler spoiler Forgive this rambling explanation, I haven't deeply explored my feelings on this.

I always feel a little weird giving my honest response to this question because I feel like I'm taking something away from trans people.

I don't identify with my birth assigned gender, but I do generally conform to it in dress and appearance and don't care to change that. I don't feel like I'm any gender at all(is that agender?). I don't ever feel gender dysphoria and don't really think about my gender identity often. I do sometimes feel pressure to conform to my birth gender in behavior, and that really bothers me because that's the aspect of gender I don't identify with. When I was younger I always felt like I was performing my assigned gender, and as an older person I'm glad I'm mostly free of that.

I think that makes me trans, but I'm not sure. :::

I’m Cis and heterosexual

::: spoiler oops i forgor I'm bisexual and questioning my gender :::

No

Cis but

i'm bi and probably somewhat more attracted to girls but every relationship and intimate encounter i've had so far has been with boys

::: spoiler spoiler "i am a meat popsicle" :::

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Yes

I can't do hexbear emojis on my phone

::: spoiler details cis(?)bi(!) :::

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The dean emotes aren't very distinctive.

I don't feel that my self is contradictory to the gender I was assigned by default, but I definitely don't feel any real attachment to that gender, and performance of that gender often made me resentful.

I'm attracted to the "opposite" gender (femmes) and enbys. Never had any coherent thoughts of physical or romantic intimacy with more masc people.

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::: spoiler spoiler I'm like a 1 on the Kinsey scale, not really attached to my gender, and very mildly gender non conformant (like nail polish and eyeliner). But I functionally live as cishet, so ¯_(ツ)_/¯ :::

::: spoiler spoiler Cishet white male gamer AKA the most oppressed minority :::

Didn’t realize there were three versions of this and used the wrong one on accident.

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I have been for awhile but lately shifting hard towards

literally me rn

::: spoiler spoiler But I am cishet-presenting. :::

::: spoiler spoiler https://youtu.be/dZaiVgolHgY?si=RIK64o-cvAwsWHzw :::

i’m not cishet i am the opposite of that

Cis but not the het

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Wait i forgot the doohickers

Right there we go

I am the cisgender hetersexual, last of my kind.

::: spoiler spoiler deeply functionally cishet (married with a kiddo), but without sounding trite realizing that I have adhd has also made me realize “oh that kind of funny ‘he’s cute’ feeling you get very occasionally with dudes probably means something too lol” :::

Put me in with the most popular group

::: spoiler spoiler I yearn for adventure :::

::: spoiler spoiler I don't know. I feel like if I was younger, I would have clicked with being NB pretty quickly. ATM I'm just very uncomfortable with being referred to at all. Not a subject, not an object, some sort of non-thing. My name and all pronouns used to refer to me feel weird and uncomfortable. :::

::: spoiler spoiler Well, I was hetero when I started using Hexbear.

Working retail makes the mind wander, and I found myself wandering into some very not straight things. My bisexuality is strange and sometimes subtle but I am too into men to be straight. :::

I share the feelings of soyviking in their comment. They put it into words better than I could.

im a 9/10 nb

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Hm

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::: spoiler spoiler I've been questioning my gender for a long time now, but actually coming to a conclusion and taking action still feels so far away :::