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6mon
We’re Trans Refugees, Left Behind with Nowhere to Go — Please Don’t Look Away
https://gofund.me/bd40a4f9Hi everyone, ... read full post
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Good girl <3
You are a good girl, and smart and beautiful and will be even more beautiful once you transition <3
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vaginoplasty challenges & solutions
I'm about three weeks past my penile-inversion, full-depth vaginoplasty, and I wanted to document some of the problems I have run into and how I have managed to cope or solve them. ... read full post
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6mon
Forgotten on World Refugee Day. Trans Refugees Still Trapped After Eviction Deadline
Hello everyone ... read full post
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6mon
The big frustration
(This is my first post in this community, plz tell me if something is off.) ... read full post
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I'm a woman
Despite how a lady at the bookstore “struggled with” my pronouns and bounced off “he” several times before settling on “they” cause apparently she couldn’t bring herself to say “she.”
Shit’s hard out there.
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[CW: Violence / Harassment] A little word about the importance of self defense
I probably won't answer many comments. I'm also not gonna make what I say sound more pretty... Sorry. ... read full post
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First time eyeliner feels great!
I am a cis guy, but have been questioning who I am and have a desire to be more feminine. ... read full post
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6mon
Transfem-friendly Kink/ENM-focused dating apps for London/UK
I've found dating apps to be an absolute minefield, regularly getting my profile pictures (very tame and appropriate pictures) reported on HER for example, presumably by transphobes, before I left it. ... read full post
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what I wish I knew prior to my vaginoplasty
So I wanted to just disclose some of the struggles I have had with my vaginoplasty, framing it subjectively as the information I wish I had been armed with before surgery, because I haven't done the work to account for how my experiences compare to others to know whether my experiences are worth generalizing or not. ... read full post
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Being a brown and skinny trans woman.
You can call me Elle. I am three years into transition that began 2022. I have a love/hate relationship with being transgender but I become healthier everyday. I am latin mixed, I have the most stubborn fast metabolism. I like wearing cutesy ruffles, sweaters, skirts, tops, and I have 3a curly hair that cascades reaching below my neck. Hm, and what about other purely positive attributes about me? I enjoy spicy snacks, I kill for a quiet setting and peacefulness, when everyone is as is, cannot fail to pleasure me. I want to post about my body, intimacy, journey, and clothes, tips, and answer questions, and have fun on this platform. ... read full post
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6mon
Dyeing armpit hair help request
Do any of y'all have any advice, tips and tricks on dyeing underarm hair? We are thinking of dyeing it for two different prides and just in general with some manic panic dye as that is apparently deemed to be safe for such things and we were wondering how to do it safely (moreso than just using a safe dye), how long it would last etc. ... read full post
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[meta] Could we please put NSFW tags on Transition timelines?
I recently had to realise that seeing the pictures of transition timelines of others is like literally an instant trigger for my Dysphoria. That's why I would really like if could put an NSFW Tag on The pictures, so that I or others dont have to see them if we dont want to. I would really appreciate that. :)
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Four Junes! Three years and three months HRT
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6 months milestone
I just realized today, while looking at old pictures, how much I have changed already. Still a long way to go, and yet very proud !
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Advice on building a wardrobe of femme clothing?
Hi y’all! Do you have any advice on how to start building a wardrobe of femme clothing? ... read full post
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[CW: Mental health] Update on my previous post about admitting myself to a psychiatric hospital
For context, see my initial post here. ... read full post
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Does anyone else feel like they are male and female equally?
Not fluid, non-binary, or agender. More like a superposition.
Binary, but also neither, and both.
I was AMAB, and presenting as female feels more natural to me, but I feel like a male and female in one body.
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[CW: Mental health issues, dysphoria, transphobia] I'm planning on admitting myself to a psychiatric hospital, but I have some anxieties
If any trans women here have been admitted to a psychiatric ward, I'm looking for advice/experiences. My main concerns are the following: ... read full post
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Unlocking new Dysphoria
It seems like, that the longer I am aware of me being trans I keep unlocking new forms of Dysphoria. I never really had any problems with my deadname, but now it does hurt a little bit when hearing it from other people, because im not officially out to them. Today I also realised that apparently I know hate seeing hairs on my arms, which was never a problem before. Hearing my voice also gets progressively worse. What the fuck is this? Why cant I not feel shittier as time goes on. I am on my way to transition, my body could decide to not make my life shit in the process. ... read full post
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a trans girl next door (manga)
https://zaiyasha.jp/book/PCOH001I picked up a crowdfunding flyer for the movie at pride last weekend, so I had to check out the manga as well. It's four poignant short stories featuring trans girls at various stages of their transitions. The author is of course trans and the characters are spot on. The physical presentation of the book is very nice too, on thick paper with a pink, white and blue glitter on the cover. ... read full post
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Advice on tucking?
I have been trying every evening for the last few days to get a good tuck for an hour or two, but no matter what I do, my balls pop out of place in short order. I tried doubling up on panties and that was decent, but things still wouldn't sit still, and now I have a gaff I've been practicing with. With panties, it feels like they're just not putting enough pressure to keep my sack in place and keep my balls up, and with the gaff, but also to a lesser degree my panties, the crotch is so narrow, my sack will inevitably hang out one or both sides enough that a ball can pop out and hang out in there instead. I haven't tried tape yet because I have done 0 hair removal because I'd rather get that area done professionally at least for the first time, and shaving has always resulted in a red, irritated mess, down below, or on my face. I don't know if I just have a particularly large and fleshy sack that refuses to be contained or what, but if you have any tricks you use, I'll try anything right now. ... read full post
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My first trans joy
Hi! I'm not yet transitioning because transphobia and I'm scared, but I'm doing small steps and growing my hair and I got small bangs, by recommendation from trans women on social media, and this is first time I was able to look at myself and see androgynous /fem person and it makes me happy, unfortunately others don't see me such but I'm at the beginning of my self discovery. Honestly I feel happy, hope you are having great day 🩷🩷 Honestly, what do y'all think about me, am I ugly? Will I look beautiful after transition? ... read full post
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[CW: body dysmorphia] I need advice for my body type and belly fat
I'm an average AMAB person: 32yrs old, 180lbs, 5'9" and I carry a lot of my weight in my belly. It gives me a lot of dysphoria and I stress over my belly fat a lot. I definitely don't have a super healthy relationship with my weight. ... read full post
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currently in the hospital, had vaginoplasty this morning - update & AMA
Here are some basic facts: ... read full post