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We invited a man into our home at Christmas and he stayed with us for 45 years

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cdxwllqz1l0o
U7826391786239 @lemmy.zip - 2day

great article, thanks for sharing

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Tomtits - 1day

Who's cutting onions this early??

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misk - 1day

You can always rely on libs when you need to dehumanise the poor. Hopefully you’ll be able to feel shame one day.

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baines @lemmy.cafe - 1day

sweet of them but how do their kids feel about it?

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pipes @sh.itjust.works - 1day

"Somebody said to them [their children] one day, 'how did you cope with Ronnie when your friends came to the house' and they said 'well, we don't think about it really, it's just Ronnie'."

Rob added: "Our kids had never ever known life without Ronnie. He was there before they came and he was there when they were gone, with children of their own."

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baines @lemmy.cafe - 1day

I read the article and nothing there answers my question

people can be blind to their own children, literally in stories older than the written word

you see cases of resentment with families that have to focus on children with major special needs

he was high functioning but a couple lines show some friction occurred so this sounds kinda whitewashed, but people don’t need to know all your personal business

but anyway I doubt this is completely honest

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chunkystyles @sopuli.xyz - 1day

If it was a blood relative, you wouldn't question it. Yes there was friction. All relationships have friction.

Why be cynical about this?

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baines @lemmy.cafe - 1day

sure i would, the example i was thinking about was three kids one being special needs all related by blood

as to being cynical?, because i hate bullshit articles just be honest about the struggles

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Clent @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 1day

Most people desperately need these comforting lies. They use more comforting lies to deny the larger comforting lies. It is comforting lies all the way down.

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