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Anon thinks everyone should grow up

5714 @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 1day

Based on the maturity level alone, those would've been perfect for each other, but I guess this wasn't about maturity at all.

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fibojoly @sh.itjust.works - 1day

Well no, that's the thing they each wanna be children and so they both are looking for a parental figure. It's fucking exhausting.

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5714 @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 1day

Nah, that's just greedy to expect 100% childish time and no return.

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Best_Jeanist @discuss.online - 20hr

Imho it's perfectly valid to have your goal to be a lifestyle sub 24/7, but you do have to accept the fact that most partners who are willing to lifestyle dom with no breaks are abusers, so you have a very high chance of being unhappy. Good doms who don't ever need a break are as rare as unicorns, so you'd better have plenty to offer them.

Then again, a lot of people looking for this kind of relationship on some psychological level want to be abused. It's a learned helplessness thing. Some people have lost so much of their ability to trust others, they need a partner who acts abusively (or pretends to) so they can let go of that feeling of paranoia that it's going to get worse. So they can stop looking over their shoulder and waiting for the other shoe to drop. It's not rational, but that's the kind of person you create when you abuse children. They grow up into adults who don't know what to do with themselves in a healthy relationship.

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IronBird @lemmy.world - 16hr

damn, this kinda sounds like me... always avoided relationships entirely because never saw a happy/successful one growing up. always been kind of paranoid...shit finally going my way/confident in the future and it just feels...wrong

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5714 @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 20hr

Choice liberalism without the personality infrastructure... yeah, no.

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falseWhite @lemmy.world - 1day

Oh boy. Anon is onto something here.

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RememberTheApollo_ @lemmy.world - 19hr

These are the same ones that complain that drama always follows them and that it’s everyone else around them that are causing all the trouble. These people can be fun to hang out with, but not remain close to for long periods. They tend to be self destructive.

There’s plenty of adults. Anon just isn’t hanging out with them.

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BeeegScaaawyCripple - 18hr

what about self aware self destructive drama magnets? i got a couple of those in the circle and they cool

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whoisearth @lemmy.ca - 19hr

As a Daddy Dom I say bring on this new world! Mwahahahaha

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nostrauxendar @lemmy.world - 16hr

...cool, dude.

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menas @lemmy.wtf - 16hr

The missing word seems to be "caretaking"

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Almacca @aussie.zone - 5hr

I prefer to go by 'manolescent'.

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Wren @lemmy.today - 6hr

Don't kinkshame. I can't come until someone implements a curfew.

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