apparently i did something that made some of my friends uncomfortable, and I've heard about it from two of them, but no one is saying what i actually did. I just read and replied to an insane wall of text, part of which was telling me i fucked up somehow and need to fix my behavior, but i literally have no idea how. i don't think i did anything wrong recently or that i jave talked about with the people affected. it kinda just feels like im being attacked for no reason, and im just a mix of confusion and anger because i dont knoww hat i did
Che Banana - 4w
Tough one.
Sometimes what you say/do isn't a reflection of your intentions and that's probably the only thing you should attempt to get across to your friends.
Something like: I screwed up.... I'm not exactly sure what I did, but I want to be clear that my intentions on my actions/what I said or did have never meant to be hurtful or harmful.
I would appreciate if someone let me know what this was- so that I could properly understand and apologize, because I'm currently clueless and need guidance.
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cassandrafatigue @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 4w
I've never had good luck with asking. You might just be out some shitty friends.
If you apologize and it isn't something that actually happened, you're extra fucked.
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Another Catgirl - 4w
I've been in a situation like that. I don't remember how I got out of it.
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apparently i did something that made some of my friends uncomfortable, and I've heard about it from two of them, but no one is saying what i actually did. I just read and replied to an insane wall of text, part of which was telling me i fucked up somehow and need to fix my behavior, but i literally have no idea how. i don't think i did anything wrong recently or that i jave talked about with the people affected. it kinda just feels like im being attacked for no reason, and im just a mix of confusion and anger because i dont knoww hat i did
Tough one.
Sometimes what you say/do isn't a reflection of your intentions and that's probably the only thing you should attempt to get across to your friends.
Something like: I screwed up.... I'm not exactly sure what I did, but I want to be clear that my intentions on my actions/what I said or did have never meant to be hurtful or harmful.
I would appreciate if someone let me know what this was- so that I could properly understand and apologize, because I'm currently clueless and need guidance.
I've never had good luck with asking. You might just be out some shitty friends.
If you apologize and it isn't something that actually happened, you're extra fucked.
I've been in a situation like that. I don't remember how I got out of it.