Don't actually do this unless you are a trained hypnotherapist.
It won't go well.
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Devjavu @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 1mon
You'll turn into a chicken.
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thethunderwolf @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 1mon
What happens when it does't go well?
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Of the Air (cele/celes) - 1mon
There is a well known wisdom in the kink and other amateur hypnosis communities that says not to try to change others with hypnosis.
This means essentially do not try to change who they are as a person or 'fix' their problems via it. Real actual change requires therapy from trained professionals, whether that be talk therapists, hypnotherapists or other kinds
What can happen? Mostly abuse, it is possible to make people so reliant on, and subservient to, you that they will do anything you say and, well, hopefully you can see where that might lead.
There isn't enough taught in the hypnokink community about undoing hypnosis (deprogramming) because a lot of people are foolhardy and egoistic enough to think that there will never come a time when that is necessary.
There's also so many people that get to it the wrong way (videos, audio on youtube and other places) that tell you to be or do specific things, and since these people are practiclly uncontactable then you've let someone who cannot help you fuck with your mind and then nobody can help you because it is likely you know nobody who can deprogram you.
It can also have the opposite effect where people will rally so hard against their programming that you tried to give them but be unable to completely and thus they will end it all, because they don't fully accept what it is saying and it hasn't actually solved their problems. Leave that one to the trained professionals who are paid (actual therapists).
This isn't an exhaustive list, but those are some of the things.
If you want to be hypnotised then please do it slowly and carefully, make sure you spend a long time getting to know someone to figure out if they're abusive, a liar etc or not and make sure they are either a professional (and have a good reputation in the community), care about you, or both; and make sure they know how to deprogam.
Things like only inductions (things that put you under) online with an awakener (a thing that takes you out of a trance) at the end is fine to listen to or watch, but don't under any circumstances watch or listen to ones that give you triggers to do things or try to change you (see above as to why).
Do not under any circumstances try to use it as a substitute for actual therapy since it will not work.
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thethunderwolf @lemmy.dbzer0.com - 1mon
Good to know, thanks.
Making sure that you can undo it seems obvious to me.
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Of the Air (cele/celes) - 1mon
Making sure that you can undo it seems obvious to me.
You'd think! But so many guides just teach how to do it, not how to undo it.
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LordAmplifier @pawb.social - 1mon
Oh hey, that's probably my unhealthiest coping mechanism! They usually don't call me a good girl, but feels nice to be represented nonetheless :3
TotallynotJessica in femcelmemes
what must be done 😔
hypnosis drf thr only way I'd say that
Get in line, everyone.
Don't actually do this unless you are a trained hypnotherapist.
It won't go well.
You'll turn into a chicken.
What happens when it does't go well?
There is a well known wisdom in the kink and other amateur hypnosis communities that says not to try to change others with hypnosis.
This means essentially do not try to change who they are as a person or 'fix' their problems via it. Real actual change requires therapy from trained professionals, whether that be talk therapists, hypnotherapists or other kinds
What can happen? Mostly abuse, it is possible to make people so reliant on, and subservient to, you that they will do anything you say and, well, hopefully you can see where that might lead.
There isn't enough taught in the hypnokink community about undoing hypnosis (deprogramming) because a lot of people are foolhardy and egoistic enough to think that there will never come a time when that is necessary.
There's also so many people that get to it the wrong way (videos, audio on youtube and other places) that tell you to be or do specific things, and since these people are practiclly uncontactable then you've let someone who cannot help you fuck with your mind and then nobody can help you because it is likely you know nobody who can deprogram you.
It can also have the opposite effect where people will rally so hard against their programming that you tried to give them but be unable to completely and thus they will end it all, because they don't fully accept what it is saying and it hasn't actually solved their problems. Leave that one to the trained professionals who are paid (actual therapists).
This isn't an exhaustive list, but those are some of the things.
If you want to be hypnotised then please do it slowly and carefully, make sure you spend a long time getting to know someone to figure out if they're abusive, a liar etc or not and make sure they are either a professional (and have a good reputation in the community), care about you, or both; and make sure they know how to deprogam.
Things like only inductions (things that put you under) online with an awakener (a thing that takes you out of a trance) at the end is fine to listen to or watch, but don't under any circumstances watch or listen to ones that give you triggers to do things or try to change you (see above as to why).
Do not under any circumstances try to use it as a substitute for actual therapy since it will not work.
Good to know, thanks.
Making sure that you can undo it seems obvious to me.
You'd think! But so many guides just teach how to do it, not how to undo it.
Oh hey, that's probably my unhealthiest coping mechanism! They usually don't call me a good girl, but feels nice to be represented nonetheless :3
I need this.