ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ I wasn't ready to be attacked like this
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TotallynotJessica - 1mon
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birdwing - 1mon
Saved, thanks bestie <33
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fonix232 - 1mon
You can be a little trans, as a treat
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renegadespork @lemmy.jelliefrontier.net - 1mon
You come in to my feed and attack me like this?!
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TotallynotJessica - 1mon
Most of us were there at one point or another. It is a cycle that can be broken; you just need to take a leap.
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blaze - 1mon
How do we break the cycle?
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TotallynotJessica - 1mon
Accept it and do something about it. Even if you have lingering doubts, it's important to realize that you'll never have total certainty. It won't be an anxiety that simply goes away if you repress hard enough; you'll eventually need to accept it and move forward with the fact that you're not cis.
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blaze - 1mon
Great advice, thank you!
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RizzRustbolt @lemmy.world - 1mon
There's always non-binary...
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TotallynotJessica - 1mon
That's still not cis
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Ziglin (it/they) - 1mon
o.o
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Broadfern @lemmy.world - 1mon
It’s not any better on this side, tbf
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RizzRustbolt @lemmy.world - 1mon
I'd recommend agender, but it's a hell of a commitment.
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CannonFodder @lemmy.world - 1mon
Why not just be whatever you want at the moment and fuck labels?
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DarkAri - 1mon
Just be a little trans when you can until you are in a position to do more. I started out with a hidden backpack a few years before I transitioned.
TotallynotJessica in egg_irl
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ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ I wasn't ready to be attacked like this
Saved, thanks bestie <33
You can be a little trans, as a treat
You come in to my feed and attack me like this?!
Most of us were there at one point or another. It is a cycle that can be broken; you just need to take a leap.
How do we break the cycle?
Accept it and do something about it. Even if you have lingering doubts, it's important to realize that you'll never have total certainty. It won't be an anxiety that simply goes away if you repress hard enough; you'll eventually need to accept it and move forward with the fact that you're not cis.
Great advice, thank you!
There's always non-binary...
That's still not cis
o.o
It’s not any better on this side, tbf
I'd recommend agender, but it's a hell of a commitment.
Why not just be whatever you want at the moment and fuck labels?
Just be a little trans when you can until you are in a position to do more. I started out with a hidden backpack a few years before I transitioned.
Painfully true