To be fair, I'm cis and happy with my masculinity. But I'd still rather be a beautiful women than a guy who looks like I do.
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HappyFrog - 2mon
I feel like most people are ambivalent towards their gender. I feel like being purely cis or purely trans is more uncommon. But that's just a feeling I've had.
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Skullgrid @lemmy.world - 2mon
Yep. I'm 100% immune to this stuff and only sympathise with people suffering from wrong gender dysmorphia. If I was a woman none of my behaviour or perspectives would change, as I have a fairly ungender based view on the world and the role I have on it as a man and women have on it.
With the obvious exception of romantic relationships.
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VaalaVasaVarde @sopuli.xyz - 2mon
What about being cis and have accepted it as part of one's identity with all the positives and negatives that are included?
When I then know that you can change your gender and hear about all the ones with dysphoria that gets happy, it mostly seems like a distant world that I can't fathom.
Anyway that's just how I feel.
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birdwing - 2mon
Valid and slay king
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2d4_bears - 2mon
Being beautiful is a superpower, disregarding gender. I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of “cis” people who are not conventionally attractive would choose to take this deal purely for the social benefits.
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TotallynotJessica - 2mon
Dysphoria can be far worse than you imagine, especially when you've experienced something better
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2d4_bears - 2mon
I mean, I am a nonbinary person who does experience dysphoria. I just suspect that a lot of folks, especially those who don’t understand the consequences, would take the deal purely for perceived social benefits. Would they regret it? Possibly, yeah.
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angrystego @lemmy.world - 2mon
I'm a cis woman. Can I push this button please?
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TotallynotJessica - 2mon
You know what, I think you can!
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Miles O'Brien - 2mon
Fuck yeah.
Still cis tho
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chaos @beehaw.org - 2mon
I think I might have the dumbest gender identity, because I'd smash the hell out of that button but then immediately come out as a trans man.
without, less so, but it still helped me a lot✨🌈🏳️🌈
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Jul (they/she) - 2mon
Wish it was that simple. Not so much in the US, unless you show no outward signs of being trans and your identity documents also magically transformed and your family and employer don't remember your AGAB. Friends aren't an issue since I get to pick those and picked well.
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kittenzrulz123 - 2mon
:3c
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Zorsith - 2mon
Hell, i dont have to be beautiful, id still push it (wont say no to it tho!)
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Cevilia (she/they/…) - 2mon
Cis woman here and I'd press that button in a heartbeat.
TotallynotJessica in egg_irl
egg🙌irl
To be fair, I'm cis and happy with my masculinity. But I'd still rather be a beautiful women than a guy who looks like I do.
I feel like most people are ambivalent towards their gender. I feel like being purely cis or purely trans is more uncommon. But that's just a feeling I've had.
Yep. I'm 100% immune to this stuff and only sympathise with people suffering from wrong gender dysmorphia. If I was a woman none of my behaviour or perspectives would change, as I have a fairly ungender based view on the world and the role I have on it as a man and women have on it.
With the obvious exception of romantic relationships.
What about being cis and have accepted it as part of one's identity with all the positives and negatives that are included?
When I then know that you can change your gender and hear about all the ones with dysphoria that gets happy, it mostly seems like a distant world that I can't fathom.
Anyway that's just how I feel.
Valid and slay king
Being beautiful is a superpower, disregarding gender. I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of “cis” people who are not conventionally attractive would choose to take this deal purely for the social benefits.
Dysphoria can be far worse than you imagine, especially when you've experienced something better
I mean, I am a nonbinary person who does experience dysphoria. I just suspect that a lot of folks, especially those who don’t understand the consequences, would take the deal purely for perceived social benefits. Would they regret it? Possibly, yeah.
I'm a cis woman. Can I push this button please?
You know what, I think you can!
Fuck yeah.
Still cis tho
I think I might have the dumbest gender identity, because I'd smash the hell out of that button but then immediately come out as a trans man.
if i got a working uterus alongside with it, yayy yes! But sadly I don't, and I mourn that, though I won't give up.
without, less so, but it still helped me a lot✨🌈🏳️🌈
Wish it was that simple. Not so much in the US, unless you show no outward signs of being trans and your identity documents also magically transformed and your family and employer don't remember your AGAB. Friends aren't an issue since I get to pick those and picked well.
:3c
Hell, i dont have to be beautiful, id still push it (wont say no to it tho!)
Cis woman here and I'd press that button in a heartbeat.
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