While it is too late for me to be going down any rabbit hole of a video, I will say that playing yourself to any extend in a game is quite important. I mean, you can roleplay however you want, but I find it quite comfy if a game even has the components to represent me as I walk the plains of x-ville. I know more than a few people who were ecstatic to have their characters be trans in Cyberpunk. I know the more customization the more work, and I don't expect indie developers to bring the noise. It's nice though, when you get a chance to pick a character (for one) and have it look like you want it to look like (for two).

Though not a video game per se this is why we go on second life a lot, we can be ourselves there in a way most games do not allow us to be.