nooooo that's the worst horny jail! the tops aren't there in the corner with us and nothing happens :(
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kittenzrulz123 - 12mon
Im pretty sure in the bottoms corner we mostly cuddle and meow at eachother :3
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P4ulin_Kbana @lemmy.eco.br - 12mon
What do you mean tops?
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Danitos @reddthat.com - 12mon
In case you are serious: opposite of bottoms.
In gay relationships there's usually a bottom (passive) person and a top (active) person.
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Swedneck @discuss.tchncs.de - 12mon
i mean i'd say that's pretty standard for humanity in general, no? not really just a gay thing.
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Danitos @reddthat.com - 12mon
Yeah, I guess so yeah. But in gay communities is veeery notorious, as 2 tops or 2 bottoms will be a big sexual incompatibility.
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Passerby6497 @lemmy.world - 12mon
Same for the Kink community as well
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Norah (pup/it/she) - 12mon
Needs to be noted:
Top =/= Dominant
Bottom =/= Submissive
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P4ulin_Kbana @lemmy.eco.br - 11mon
Thanks for the explanation!
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Dharma Curious (he/him) - 12mon
Jokes on you, I tunneled out of the bottoms corner years ago! Now I can sneak into The Basement of Aggressive Tops whenever I want!I haven't been able to sit down since 2009!
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P4ulin_Kbana @lemmy.eco.br - 12mon
What is a top?
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Dharma Curious (he/him) - 12mon
Hopefully about 7 inches and looking to take out some frustrations
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jaybone @lemmy.world - 12mon
You’re making us straight people look uninformed.
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theneverfox @pawb.social - 12mon
It's a legit problem... You have tops and bottoms in straight relationships too, it's not about parts or gender, it's about relationship dynamics
But we've partially tied it up with gender, which really fucks with all these people who don't understand why their sex lives suck, no matter how hard they try
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Swedneck @discuss.tchncs.de - 12mon
The societal views on relationships are just so fucked in general, stuff like "dominant=top" "man=dominant" and "you can't have different preferences day-to-day", and of course "relationships can only be 2 people".
It's taken me several years of constant poking and prodding at my brain to figure out my preferences and it's complex enough that i'd double the length of this comment by explaining it.
But god damn it's nice to have it figured out; especially coming to terms with not actually being straight (and rejecting the concept of sexuality categories) has done wonders for my confidence, it's a solid foundation for my mental health.
It makes me very sad and angry that it's questionable if a significant amount of the population will ever reach this point, i wish we could launch a global project to help people with introspection and untangling themselves so they can have this inner peace.
Martineski in 196
:3c rule.
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nooooo that's the worst horny jail! the tops aren't there in the corner with us and nothing happens :(
Im pretty sure in the bottoms corner we mostly cuddle and meow at eachother :3
What do you mean tops?
In case you are serious: opposite of bottoms.
In gay relationships there's usually a bottom (passive) person and a top (active) person.
i mean i'd say that's pretty standard for humanity in general, no? not really just a gay thing.
Yeah, I guess so yeah. But in gay communities is veeery notorious, as 2 tops or 2 bottoms will be a big sexual incompatibility.
Same for the Kink community as well
Needs to be noted:
Top =/= Dominant
Bottom =/= Submissive
Thanks for the explanation!
Jokes on you, I tunneled out of the bottoms corner years ago! Now I can sneak into The Basement of Aggressive Tops whenever I want!I haven't been able to sit down since 2009!
What is a top?
Hopefully about 7 inches and looking to take out some frustrations
You’re making us straight people look uninformed.
It's a legit problem... You have tops and bottoms in straight relationships too, it's not about parts or gender, it's about relationship dynamics
But we've partially tied it up with gender, which really fucks with all these people who don't understand why their sex lives suck, no matter how hard they try
The societal views on relationships are just so fucked in general, stuff like "dominant=top" "man=dominant" and "you can't have different preferences day-to-day", and of course "relationships can only be 2 people".
It's taken me several years of constant poking and prodding at my brain to figure out my preferences and it's complex enough that i'd double the length of this comment by explaining it.
But god damn it's nice to have it figured out; especially coming to terms with not actually being straight (and rejecting the concept of sexuality categories) has done wonders for my confidence, it's a solid foundation for my mental health.
It makes me very sad and angry that it's questionable if a significant amount of the population will ever reach this point, i wish we could launch a global project to help people with introspection and untangling themselves so they can have this inner peace.
the stuff you wear on your torso
Please watch this educational video: https://youtu.be/s0kqobQRcUo
I have never felt quite so seen
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Why isn't he in the corner? /genq
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:OC===3
:O==3
:O=3
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me inhaling a weirdly long chicken drumstick whole
Username checks out
the resemblance is uncanny
Holy shit that's freeBSD reference
Thank you! I’ve wondered what the “c” was for.
:3c
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mischeivous proboscis monkey, with only the bulbous nose able to fit in the frame
:3==8
So what is :q! For?
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