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  cows_are_underrated in mtf

  Not having Dysphoria is kinda weird (and changeing something is scary)

  Currently the amount of Dysphoria I have is relatively low and while this sounds kinda nice it makes transitioning more difficult. I know that I am trans, but due to having little Dysphoria I dont always have recent "evidence" of being trans (I know for sure I am trans, but Dysphoria is kind of like the most obvious sign of being trans), it always feels like I am "faking" it. I know how bad my Dysphoria has been, I do sometimes have minor to medium levels of Dysphoria, I have one hell of a backlog (even written down), but since all of this happened quite some time ago, it feels like it was just a phase (which it isnt). ... read full post

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  return2ozma in mtf

  The Right Is Now Transvestigating Charlie Kirk and His Wife, Erika

  https://www.them.us/story/charlie-erika-kirk-transvestigator-trans-transvestigation?client_service_name=them.&client_service_id=31178&service_user_id=1.78e+16&supported_service_name=instagram_publishing
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  Lumelore in mtf

  Got my balls destroyed today

  Good fucking riddance. ... read full post

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  Berengaria_of_Navarre in mtf

  Quick question about HRT and sexual orientation.

  My partner is concerned that I'm going to suddenly start being attracted to men once I start on the trans-mission fluid. Apparently she keeps reading Reddit posts about people who's sexual orientation changes after they start hormones. How common is this? I can't personally think of a word in which I would be attracted to men. Honestly it kinda crosses me out. I did go through a period where I decided to see if I was bisexual and slept with a couple of dudes, but I found the experience really off-putting. Have any of you ladies experienced a switch in sexual orientation? If so, from what to what? ... read full post

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  Kayday in mtf

  Mental health referrals for bottom surgery [US]

  I'm currently in the process of obtaining the two different mental health referrals my insurance asks for before they will cover my orchiectomy. My doctor set me up with a therapist who can be my first referral, and she's great; very kind, and understanding of my situation. I am getting antsy though. ... read full post

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  lwhjp in mtf

  First attempt at gradient nails

  https://piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone/posts/DB/r0/DBr0f18TVehprzD.jpeg

  It took a few tries to figure out a good technique, but I'm reasonably happy with how they turned out. They look OK from a distance, anyway.

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  CyaraKaira in mtf

  We’re still hanging on by a thread Please don’t let the little safety we have disappear.

  cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/34247713 ... read full post

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  birdwing in mtf

  Question re: speed of HRT

  So far HRT is going very well, I'm generally much happier. ... read full post

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  theresa in mtf

  Saw this painting by Max Ernst in a museum today and it's the most accurate depiction of my gender experience I've ever seen

  

  It captures the interaction femininity and non-binarity have within myself so well. The right figure is femininity or female identity within myself holding up non-binarity and helping it stand as it is more easily defined and less complex to describe. The left figure changes texture and materials a lot and is hard to describe and grasp and really caputures how hard it is for me to grasp my own idea of non-binarity. And I like that they're hugging and interacting because that's what I feel like as well. ... read full post

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  choihanna in mtf

  Becoming feminine again after a long depression.

  I spent years under a strong depression when I was in High School, I didn't take care of my appearance and that made people think I was a lesbian for some reason. ... read full post

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  birdwing in mtf

  [Q & Vent] How to cope with pregnancy dysphoria?

  See title. How do I even cope with never being able to get pregnant? I mourn the fact that I never even once had the opportunity to get pregnant, to feel life in me developing, and all that. Of all things, this gives me the greatest dysphoria. I want to have wider hips and larger boobs, and even though I'm 28 (so hip widening likely won't happen... maybe surgery?) and I'm 7 months on HRT, I feel like it's not satisfactory yet. It has made me so much happier and I feel much more liberated having HRT, but even before I knew trans was a thing, even early on, I still had the desire to eventually be able to get pregnant. ... read full post

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  return2ozma in mtf

  Erica Deuso Makes Trans History, Elected as Pennsylvania Mayor

  https://www.them.us/story/erica-deuso-elected-downington-pennsylvania-mayor-trans
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  MystValkyrie in mtf

  Falling out of love with nail polish the farther I get into transition. Is this normal?

  Putting on black nail polish used to be the highlight of my week in the early days of transition and way before I came out. I was never good at it, but I liked how it looked on me and it felt like a way to get control back in my life in one of the few ways that I could. ... read full post

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  Berengaria_of_Navarre in mtf

  Tips on training my singing voice to sound as close to this as possible?

  https://youtu.be/K22kVnHYke0

  Singing is one of the few things that brings me joy and wanting to sound just like Eivør was one of the things that made me start to question my gender identity. So if anyone is familiar with voice training as it pertains to singing, I'd be eternally grateful for tips. ... read full post

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  dandelion in mtf

  Case Report: Squamous Carcinoma of the Neovagina after Male-to-Female Reconstruction Surgery

  https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6354136/

  Get your HPV vaccine, and if post-op, see a gynecologist!

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  CyaraKaira in mtf

  Transgender refugees in South Sudan at risk of being persecuted. Emergency

  Hello everyone, hope all is well. It has been months since I posted. I had lost my account because my phone was stolen. Also a lot has been happening ever since from the government chasing us from the camp because we are transgender to now that the South Sudanese wanting to kill us a video was uploaded on the fundraiser about how a South Sudanese national is trying to tell others to attack the refugees that haven’t managed to leave Gorom refugee settlement. This really a serious situation that needs your support in order to find safety for the rest kindly. Honestly the major reason as to why I’m writing is that we are in an emergency situation. We are going be chased out of the shelter because of failure to pay rent. We are trying to raise 950$ and we only have 78$. I’m really afraid because even here we live by hiding and how about if we are left on streets. We are visible transgenders that we will be at risk of being killed in this war country. Anything can help also boosting the post means a lot. ... read full post

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  kiara in mtf

  [CW: suicidal thoughts] No friends

  I made a similar post a few weeks ago, but just remembered that the last time I had friends was over ten years ago, when I was ten. ... read full post

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  cows_are_underrated in mtf

  Somehow I am suddenly starting to resonate with women way more than I do with men (Alternative title: Women are awesome)

  So recently I realised, that the more I transition I Am starting to resonate with women way more than I do with men. Its literally almost every aspect. Conversations are a bit more - let me call it like that - "soft". No/less crude jokes, less talking while someone else speaks, more friendly vibes and so on. I also would 100% lie, that I didnt like it quite a lot when women ask about where I got my nail polish (I got a huge box with nail polish in it (from a friend) and there is one really cool looking red metallic one and quite regularly when I wear it other women ask about it). I had this realisation this weekend, when I was at an event where I knew no one (the event was 4 days long) and I realised that I kinda dont like socialising with men nearly as much as I do with women. I pretty much had the fun of my life simply because some of the women there were absolutely amazing. ... read full post

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  NelDel in mtf

  Halloween Costume Thread

  Fun lil thread, what did you dress as for halloween this year?

  (If that's something you celebrate where you're at)

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  irotsoma in mtf

  Wipeable Pad for Post-Vaginoplasty Dilation

  I recently had vaginoplasty, and I'm looking for a pad of some kind that is not too stiff and not absorbent for putting under me during dilation. Something that I can wipe with water, or optionally alcohol if it's safe for the plastic, but won't absorb anything or stain from the blood. ... read full post

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  coolestusername in mtf

  Trans Music and The Desire To Exist - pappo

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojlbve82DzQ

  interesting video i must say, especially seeing a cis person analyzing and understanding these stuff

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  terreggfied in mtf

  I know it’s just a filter but holy euphoria

  

  This snapchat filter made me feel pretty and now I have my first makeup goals. That is all. ☺️

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  dandelion in mtf

  discovered a helpful technique when dilating

  when dilating, often I have a lot of pain around what I suspect are certain scar rings in my neovagina, basically areas where it's much harder to push past, almost like a sphincter but without control to tighten ... read full post

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  terreggfied in mtf

  Think my egg cracked and I'm terrified.

  Edit: Just wanted to take a moment to say thank you to all of the kind and informative responses I am getting here, and for all of the constructive discussion I see going on in this thread. You all are amazing. 💜 ... read full post

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  dandelion in mtf

  post-op bottom dysphoria

  so, I should start by saying vaginoplasty significantly reduced my genital dysphoria, and in general has helped me feel more like a woman - it's overall quite clear it was the right choice for me (and same with transition overall). ... read full post

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