The lawsuit filed in Durham County Court accused Brenay Kennard – an influencer with nearly 3 million followers on TikTok and 274,000 followers on Instagram – of seducing and having an affair with her manager, Tim Montague.
North Carolina's alienation of affection law allows a spouse to sue the person they blame for an affair that ends a marriage.
Akira Montague claimed the affair caused her mental anguish, damage to her health and deprived her children of a two-parent household.
The alleged affair played out both in the manager’s home, and on Kennard’s social media, Akira Montague claimed.
Tim Montague eventually left his wife for Kennard.
You can sue the "seducer" instead of the cheating partner? What?
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came_apart_at_Kmart [he/him, comrade/them] - 1mon
the way it was explained to me was that the divorce would be how a partner punishes the cheater, the alienation of affection laws were how you went after the other party.
i was also told proceedings were rare, the laws were old, and usually more of something that is used to pursue better divorce terms.
i think originally the patriarchal idea was that if some rich man steals your wife away with his lavish gifts of silk dresses and exotic chocolates, you can get a bite of him on his way out the door, assuming you can prove he knew she was legally married.
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BountifulEggnog [she/her] - 1mon
What an absolutely shitty law. Sue him.
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dead [he/him] - 1mon
I changed the title to hopefully seem less biased. The original article title says that the woman "destroyed" the marriage, places all the blame on the woman influencer.
I don't agree with the law. I think it's a bizarre news story
The significance of this story is that it's going viral on tiktok and youtube. I suspect there may be a lot of youtube essays coming out of this.
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SevenSkalls [he/him] - 1mon
Why is this a law?
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Euergetes [none/use name] - 1mon
patriarchy
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miz [any, any] - 1mon
criminal conversation
damn if only I could hand this out for the idiot things I have to overhear in the imperial core
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CocteauChameleons [none/use name] - 1mon
I agree with this just because a tik tok influencer is getting shafted
dead in popularculture
NC TikTok influencer ordered to pay $1.75 million in damages to woman for having affair with her now ex-husband
https://www.wral.com/news/local/tiktok-influencer-brenay-kennard-ordered-pay-1-75-million-nc-november-2025/another article
https://people.com/tiktoker-ordered-to-pay-husband-ex-wife-1-75-million-for-alienation-of-affection-11847383
You can sue the "seducer" instead of the cheating partner? What?
the way it was explained to me was that the divorce would be how a partner punishes the cheater, the alienation of affection laws were how you went after the other party.
i was also told proceedings were rare, the laws were old, and usually more of something that is used to pursue better divorce terms.
i think originally the patriarchal idea was that if some rich man steals your wife away with his lavish gifts of silk dresses and exotic chocolates, you can get a bite of him on his way out the door, assuming you can prove he knew she was legally married.
What an absolutely shitty law. Sue him.
I changed the title to hopefully seem less biased. The original article title says that the woman "destroyed" the marriage, places all the blame on the woman influencer.
I don't agree with the law. I think it's a bizarre news story
The significance of this story is that it's going viral on tiktok and youtube. I suspect there may be a lot of youtube essays coming out of this.
Why is this a law?
patriarchy
damn if only I could hand this out for the idiot things I have to overhear in the imperial core
I agree with this just because a tik tok influencer is getting shafted