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Babs [she/her] - 2.1yr

I like girls (in a gay way) and guys (also in a gay way).

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pooberbee (she/her) - 2.1yr

If you're non-binary, it's actually only half gay in each direction. If you're bigender I think it's double gay? I tried agender and it said NaN.

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WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them] - 2.1yr

Can I still get "NaN" if I failed the kinsey scale test or do I get another thing?

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kristina [she/her] - 2.1yr

exactly

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Diuretic_Materialism [he/him] - 2.1yr

I'm a big ol' hairy cis man and my partner is NB, and they told me recently this is exactly how they reacted when they met me.

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SnowySkyes - 2.1yr

It's funny cause pre-transition, I was "gay" but absolutely did not enjoy gay sex in any way, shape, or form. I was simply heavily attracted to men sexually but not in a male/male fashion. I did this for 15 fucking years I would like to add. Y'think I would've figured things out way before I did.

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yuli [she/her] - 2.1yr

omg same and it felt so confusing like what do u mean u want sex with men but not gay sex?? that took embarrassingly long to figure out

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P1d40n3 [he/him] - 2.1yr

We need to stop immigration from straight countries...at least until we figure out what's going on with them! Just for a while.....

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machiabelly [she/her] - 2.1yr

The only time I was ever actually interested in men was when gay men were attracted to me. The way straight men look at me is so boring. I can sympathize with the trans women who keep their gay guy partners after transitioning. They're so fun.

But also, stay away from people who aren't attracted to your womanhood. Its fine if you've already developed a connection with them, and thats where the attraction comes from. But, you need to protect yourself! Don't fuck with anyone unless they cherish your womanhood! (or whatever identity you adopt). They will inevitably encourage behaviors that don't make you happy. If gay sex was fully satisfying to you you wouldn't have transitioned. They will act as anchors to the past you need to move beyond.

The less empathetic and subby you are the less this probably matters. I just think people aren't careful enough with their emotions when it comes to sex.

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PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them] - 2.1yr

Sex with a man is inherently gay

Unless it's a straight man having sex with a woman. That is also gay, because they should be having sex with a man, which is not gay, but only for them.

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RiotDoll [she/her, she/her] - 2.1yr

i thought i was pansexual before transition but it just turns out penises are fine when they're attached to lady's

so i'm basically the opposite, where i start turning into a flustered moron every time I find myself around pretty women whereas men routinely make me want to burn down reality itself

but for a while there when my wires were crossed I found myself enduring the smells and antics of a gender I was priming myself to leave in the dust fully; who knew

either way figuring yourself out is great

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naom3 [she/her] - 2.1yr

Me: only really started to be interested in men after starting transitioning

Also me:

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