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Discussion Thread ๐Ÿ… Wednesday 15 October 2025

Gibsonhasafluffybutt - 2mon

I GOT THE FUCKING JOB!!!!!!

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Rusty Raven - 2mon

Congratulations! ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‚

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TheWitchofThornbury2 - 2mon

Congrats! ๐Ÿš€๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ˜ป๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ 

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StudSpud The Starchy - 2mon

YASSSSSSS

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

WOOOOO!!!!!

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Alamutjones - 2mon

๐ŸŽ‰!

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SituationCake - 2mon

Congrats!!

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

Yay!!! Congrats ๐Ÿป

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tone212_ - 2mon

Yes!!!

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Bottom_racer - 2mon

eee! congrats!

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Catfish - 2mon

All the fucking yays!

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melbaboutown - 2mon

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

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Eagle - 2mon

Well done!!!!

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

No way, that's awesome.

so many happy dances :) :) :)

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tombruzzo - 2mon

Congratulations, it's so great to hear finally

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imoldgreeeg - 2mon

YAY!!!

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anotherspringchicken - 2mon

Eeeeeee!! Congratulations! ๐Ÿฅณ

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LowExperience2368 - 2mon

WOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! YOU GO MAN ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ

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tone212_ - 2mon

Presentation went well despite not feeling 100% (run down and tired from crap sleep) and being nervous throughout. The show must go on, so I did my best. Just couldn't shake the nerves today. I think I did enough to convince the audience that I'm someone they could work with, that's what matters at the end of the day. And I had a few people stick around afterwards asking questions and taking my business card which I think is a good sign. We'll see what comes of it!

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anotherspringchicken - 2mon

Well done on getting through it - they get easier with practice!

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LowExperience2368 - 2mon

A win is a win!! Well done on getting through it despite those obstacles :)

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Bottom_racer - 2mon

First sunset swim in a while.

Had dins on the beach too which I've really missed.

Now it's time to capture a comet.

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ป

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

Is there a rave choon for this?

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

yay, so happy to see beach /water pics again

and so beautiful

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Gibsonhasafluffybutt - 2mon

Another interview done and moving to the next round!

Have another later this morning which is the one that I discussed the police check with.

Letโ€™s see how it goes!

Edit: I think it went ok. Theyโ€™ve done reference checks already before the interview and like I said, I gave a comprehensive explanation about the police check.

Letโ€™s see what happens.

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

Good luck

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Gibsonhasafluffybutt - 2mon

I sent them a screenshot of my police check.

Iโ€™ve been completely transparent, taken responsibility and I havenโ€™t had a single issue in 9 years.

Thereโ€™s still a 50% chance theyโ€™ll knock me back though.

Iโ€™m trying not to get my hopes up, but itโ€™s hard not to.

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Gibsonhasafluffybutt - 2mon

Thanks everyone for the kind wishes :)

Not even the concrete saw that's cranking across the road can get me down. For now lol

Goodnight all โค๏ธ

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tombruzzo - 2mon

Hope you get some decent sleep and I'm glad the search is over

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Bottom_racer - 2mon

Gawd needed that sleep.

Don't have to deal with little meltdowns from ol' girl for the next 2 days. Takes its toll that's for sure. Some of them are head scratchers.. like refusing to get on the scales (she has to), then turning around and saying the only reason she's not gaining weight is because I'm not feeding her enough to get rid of her. Then come dinner, little meltdown about her not wanting to put ensure in her food and that we're bullying her. She'd be sub 40kg easy w/out it.

The real head scratcher is she has all her memory, knows what's happening but just refuses very easy things that'll help. It's a very weird form of incident dementia. You could easily just pass it off as just being old and grumpy and I'm sure a lot do. Thankfully ol' boy finally agrees w/ me that that's what it is. Doesn't change much except at least it's an explanation. Viewing it through that makes things bit less frustrating.

Lotta stigma there, so I can see why ol' boy is reluctant to get her into a neuro as it'd just be upsetting and yet another lengthy process for her. For me it'd be good know definitively but I'm done locking horns about that now.

But shit's stable, ignoring the meltdowns and just gonna keep doing what's working.

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

my MIL would rather die than accept my help,

then she phones other people to say I'm awful and won't help her

she refuses to accept she is old and has had hip and knee operations, she's 86, she won't stop driving, she won't use her cane, she won't get rails or ramps put in her house, and she won't let me, or anyone else help or do things

I understand pride and am sensitive but when she is actively mean and lies about me, and she has done it for decades, then I kinda don't care anymore

I suppose what I'm saying is that even in old age and being infirm personality is a big factor on outcome

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SpinMeRound - 2mon

Glad you're getting a bit of respite, that's a shit situation to be put in. You're fuckin' awesome for doing all that you are!

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anotherspringchicken - 2mon

Dementia has some really weird effects on people, especially in how their personalities and thinking can change.

Youโ€™re doing an amazing job looking after your mum, in really difficult circumstances, and I hope you get the chance to unwind and have some time to yourself

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melbaboutown - 2mon

Yeah, personalities change. Stubbornness, even rage. :( Itโ€™s really hard. Iโ€™m glad youโ€™re getting a break.

Maybe get her one of those comfy hanging egg chairs but somehow suspend it with a luggage scale in the mix? Or hide a weight-remembering scale under her seat cushion? I KID, I KID.

For serious though you may be able to sub in neutral Ensure or protein powder for part or all of the milk powder in cream stew and it might not be noticed. Maybe even add some actual cream and/or cheese right at the end before whizzing it up. Just donโ€™t let her catch you doing it ๐Ÿ˜

https://japan.recipetineats.com/white-stew-cream-stew/

Dementia support forums might also be really helpful and supportive during this time.

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

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Eagle - 2mon

::: spoiler Title It is my Friday though... Shhhhh. :::

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

::: spoiler spoiler Happy Fake Friday :::

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Catfish - 2mon

Almost there stay on target! Cat stole one of the laser bits, I'll find it eventually. Star Wars lego

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Eagle - 2mon

Oh my God. Its huge!

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Catfish - 2mon

(That's no moon) yep! And my original plan to hang it on a wall won't work.

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

cat ate it

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melbaboutown - 2mon

Do you remember that Paul Jennings story Singenpoo

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Catfish - 2mon

A 3 inch stick? I fucking hope not!

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LowExperience2368 - 2mon

๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

please stop giving me lego to add to my wishlist! I already want the eiffel tower ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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Catfish - 2mon

Sorry ๐Ÿ˜ธ

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Alamutjones - 2mon

Have gymed. Now delicious peanut stir fry

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melbaboutown - 2mon

I have walkened and showered

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LowExperience2368 - 2mon

Yay Melba!! Good to hear you're walking in the beautiful sunshine we've got going ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Rusty Raven - 2mon

Fun night at work last night, computers said NO so I had to write everything down on paper instead. Then my pen said no too, snapped in half and all its insides fell out. It's just hard to find good help these days.

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

I think I might know your occupation ๐Ÿค

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Rusty Raven - 2mon

You pass today's informal news quiz with flying colours ๐Ÿคฃ

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StudSpud The Starchy - 2mon

So apparently I'm grinding my teeth less during the night, if at all, according to my partner. Which is good! I'm not waking up with god awful headaches.

But I've replaced it with clutching my doona causing tendon and muscle pain in my hands ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ

I win some, I lose some ๐Ÿ˜‚

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

I get crampy hands because they get cold at night so I put them under my body. When I wake up and grab my phone it takes me a few goes to use the fingerprint function. First world problem.

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anotherspringchicken - 2mon

You can get cheap(ish) mouth guards to help with the night time grinding. (Donโ€™t be like me and wait until your tooth breaks before getting one, though)

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StudSpud The Starchy - 2mon

I've used them before, I tend to find them really large for my mouth ๐Ÿ˜‚ perhaps I should look at child-sized ones ๐Ÿ‘€

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anotherspringchicken - 2mon

I had an oral b one which was pretty good.. mouldable, so you could probably make it narrower or chop bits off the ends. I think theyโ€™re generally pretty lumpy though

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melbaboutown - 2mon

Yeah I tried a boil to bite one and it forced my jaw into a weird strained position

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SaneMartigan - 2mon

So if you want another year of Windows 10 support you can activate an Extended support option in Settings > Updates and security > Windows Update > Then in the middle of the window there's the extended support option, choose to backup settings to make it free.

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tombruzzo - 2mon

There seems to be all these weird sneaky ways to get extra support for Windows 10. Of course there's one answer to not have to worry about Windows support at all

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SaneMartigan - 2mon

Oh for sure, but I can't be stuffed rolling the OS over to linux yet. Bazzite seems the way to go for my gaming rig. Kushner buying EA killed BF6 for me which was the only reason I had to use windows11 so fuckem. Plus I heard that the TPM settings required in bios make dual boot a drag so double fuck em.

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tombruzzo - 2mon

I turned on secureboot to play the BF6 beta and it fucked with my Mint partition, even though it's on a separate SSD. It was great but the anticheat and secureboot are so invasive it's put me off getting it unless my friends do.

And I think I'd recommend Bazzite if you're going to do any amout of gaming. I went with Mint because I didn't want a 'gamer' distro, but I feel like there have been issues beyond my secureboot driver problems when it comes to games, I should have gone with something with all the prerequisites installed. You can go the normal version of Bazzite, not the one that boots directly into Steam Game Mode, and it's just like any other desktop experience.

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Gibsonhasafluffybutt - 2mon

Roadworks from 10pm till 5am for another 2 and a half weeks.

Hard to block it out when it shakes the fucking house.

Fuckers. When I was in Cheltenham and they were doing this they offered to put me up in a hotel.

But this area isn't fancy enough it seems.

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Alamutjones - 2mon

I feel your pain. I also have a constant symphony

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SituationCake - 2mon

I feel your pain. Iโ€™ve been unlucky enough to be close to construction or roadworks a few times. Itโ€™s awful because it can go for months. You can try earplugs but they donโ€™t always block out enough. Try sleep in a different room thatโ€™s furtherst from the source of the noise. Unfortunately nothing can be done to escape the vibration. Horrid. Hopefully the road crew can finish on time and it doesnโ€™t go longer than the 2.5 weeks.

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imoldgreeeg - 2mon

It's glorious out here. Watching the Raven family wander around. Little Raven juveniles are very demanding.

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Rusty Raven - 2mon

Yeah, that's why I don't have kids. It's all Mum! Mum! Mum! I want another worm! Mum!

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Alamutjones - 2mon

My parents have a magpie family. Bub is trying really hard to convince Mum and Dad heโ€™s little and helpless, even though heโ€™s nearly as big as they are

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

31 tomorrow ๐Ÿซฃ

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

Happy Birthday. You don't look a day over 20.

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

I meant 31 scallops

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

Can I be your best friend?

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tombruzzo - 2mon

I think tomorrow is going to be a work from home day for me

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

And windy ๐Ÿคง

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

Time to double up the dose ๐Ÿ’Š๐Ÿ’Š

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

Ah ha ๐Ÿ‘

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SituationCake - 2mon

First hot day is always a shock to the system. Today is glorious outside though.

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LowExperience2368 - 2mon

Happy Birthday! Hopefully you've avoided the lifetime health cover loading!

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Gibsonhasafluffybutt - 2mon

Glad I'm dark skinned lol

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

Happy World Mushroom Day ๐Ÿ„

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

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CEOofmyhouse56 - 2mon

Across the road there's a share house. On days like these they sit in their driveway on the back of a Ute with shirts off, mullets flowing, drinking with not a woman in sight. I call it the Bro Club. Binoculars come in very handy.

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Alamutjones - 2mon

Howdy ๐Ÿค 

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melbaboutown - 2mon

Melbcatโ€™s results are back, she does have a uti still and it is enterococcus. Vets have finally given in on the antibiotics and agreed to an extended course. Iโ€™m hoping itโ€™s ready by tomorrow.

::: spoiler spoiler Sheโ€™s allergic to one that would be effective but thankfully thereโ€™s one or two that might still work and Iโ€™m hoping the long course will be effective on the bacteria sheltering in the bladder lining ๐Ÿคž ::: Sheโ€™s such a trooper. Sheโ€™s still happily eating, curious about outside, still affectionateโ€ฆ itโ€™s just so hard to get rid of this single issue.

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

aww, poor sweetie

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tombruzzo - 2mon

It's ride to work day today. Nowhere near me is giving out free breakfast so I just made my own coffee and rode to work like I do most mornings.

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SituationCake - 2mon

Woke up way too early this morning after a bad nights sleep. Wave of drowsiness has just hit. Today will need several coffees.

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bacon - 2mon

Beep Beep ๐Ÿšš
๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ‰๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿฅฆ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿซ›๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿฅ’๐ŸŒฝ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿซš๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿง…๐Ÿฅฏ๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅ–๐Ÿฅจ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿง‡๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅฉ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿซ“๐Ÿ•๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ”๐ŸŒญ๐Ÿฅ™๐Ÿง†๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŒฏ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฃ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸฅŸ๐Ÿฆช๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿš๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ ๐Ÿค๐Ÿชผ๐Ÿฆ€๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿข๐Ÿก๐Ÿง๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅง๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿจ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅœ๐ŸŒฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฅ›โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿต๐Ÿบ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฅค๐Ÿง‹๐Ÿงƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿง‰๐Ÿ”‹

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Rusty Raven - 2mon

A set of batteries and a stack of pancakes with cream and syrup please.

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bacon - 2mon

๐Ÿ”‹๐Ÿ”‹

๐Ÿฆ
๐Ÿฏ
๐Ÿฅž
๐Ÿฅž
๐Ÿฅž

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

Smashed avo on toast with caviar and fried eggs please

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bacon - 2mon

๐Ÿ”จ๐Ÿฅ‘
๐Ÿž๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ‘ผ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿณ

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

Ode to Percy Bysshe Shelley

I read Ozymandias, it was very long

longer than the long long song in hop on pop

I can't remember what it was about,

it was a long time ago and I have forgotten

you were totes awesome in the OG Frankenstein movie

Byron stole the stage, he always does

so much BD energy he limps

but just like Mozart you shagged the little sister too,

Byron never did that

I stole your pome yesterday, to a Skylark

and put in some modern argot, it turned out ok ๐Ÿ™‚

I never do know how to pronounce your name

is it Per-cee or Per-se

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Thornburywitch - 2mon

If you think Ozymandias is long (14 lines - it's a sonnet), then don't attempt The Bride of Abydos (1204 lines - 339 of which is a single speech).

I've always pronounced Percy as rhyming with mercy. Don't know of any major variants. I did have a teacher once with the surname Persse, but this was pronounced "purse", at least to his face.

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

I admit I only got half way through Don Juan, one of those you had to be there pomes I think

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Thornburywitch - 2mon

Me too. Come to think of it, Me Too pretty much describes the whole poem.

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

I was :EYEROLL: nearly the whole time

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Force_majeure123 - 2mon

"so much BD energy he limps" ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Alamutjones - 2mon

I think I need a coffee

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Seagoon_ - 2mon

had a lot of sleep but will sleep some more

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StudSpud The Starchy - 2mon

Shudder sometimes gets the ratings a bit off.

::: spoiler despite the app saying it has nudity and strong sex scenes, Leave (2022) has none at all ๐Ÿ˜‚ :::

Made me brace for it the whole film and nothing lol

Seems to have received bad to average reviews, but I enjoyed it! I'd call it more of a thriller with ghost elements, rather than a horror.

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LowExperience2368 - 2mon

Got home late tonight because a) some people were trying to get food after the Meetup but everything was closed and b) buses replacing trains. Had a lovely chat with PSOs who were very kind in walking me to my car. They told me I should've texted the stop it line for the guy last week, or even just pressed the red button. I thought the red button was for when someone's life is at danger, not a guy being a nuisance and making people feel unsafe.

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